Become the rider of your life

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Learn to listen to yourself.

Since you were little, you’ve allowed others to decide for you. Beliefs were planted in you, beliefs that maybe you were never encouraged to question, or maybe you simply never took the time to do so. And so we develop this habit of trusting everything we see and hear without first pausing to question it.

It takes a lot of courage to dare to question everything you once believed to be true, everything you thought was the absolute truth. Maybe it does hold some reality, but often it is only the reality of the person or source that told you it was so.

Each of us has our own path in this life, and we must learn how to return to it.

The problem is that we are programmed to follow someone else’s path. There are too many distractions outside of us. We are constantly focused on someone else, in our minds or on our phones instead of being present in our own lives, listening to our own needs.

We talk about our path, yet it will always be seen through someone else’s. So why do we keep looking for approval or answers outside?

We are asleep.

And many times we choose to remain in this state because it’s what we’ve been taught our whole lives. It’s comfortable to simply go with the flow, to follow a trimmed, a ready-made path, one that is not truly ours, but feels safe.

If there is something I have learned, it’s when I skip the difficult part, the part that makes me most uncomfortable, I stay exactly where I am. And I truly believe that this life is about growth and transcendence.

I believe our society is the way it is because most people choose comfort over uncertainty. We choose safety so we don’t disturb our nervous system, instead of training our nervous system to feel safe within uncertainty.

And without even realizing it, you may end up living a life that isn’t yours. You become a prisoner in your own existence. Just to please others? Just to follow their same limiting beliefs?

In this life you must understand that absolutely everything you can imagine is literally possible. Everything is vibration. Everything is energy. Everything we see, touch, hear, smell, taste, it is simply that. A manifestation of perception, of imagination. And if this is so, then everything is possible.

All you have to do is learn to quiet those external voices so you can finally hear your inner voice and direct all your energy toward what you truly came here to do.

You are the creator.